Thanks to Women’s Day writer Brendan Tapley you ladies are about to be informed of the 10 things that Men wish you knew about sex! (yeah I said it) So click and study!!

Just for legal purposes, I’m making my own paraphrasing this article. If you want to see the actual article with a little more depth the link is at the bottom of the page.

#1. We respond to praise – Believe it or not ladies we are a tad sensitive about ourselves too! Be sure to tell your man how buff he looks, or how well that Superman costume he’s wearing makes his package look amazing! …or somewhere along those lines.

#2. We fear intimacy – Not for the reason your thinking though, according to Brendan’s article men are more affectionate than women up to “School age” then we hide it away because we realize how much of a connection we truly desire. Weird huh?

#3. We appreciate sex for sex’s sake – Yes, the above statement may be true, however, sometimes we just want some “Throw-Down sex” men want women to enjoy raw sex, not just kind of deal with it, or get through it. We just wanna ravish you sometimes…Won’t you let us ravish you?

#4. We are not just our… – It’s not all about Mr. Happy! Men (like women) have many erogenous areas! We just get scared to say something because we are afraid your gonna freak out and run away screaming “Oh…My..Gawd!” ..find out specifics in the actual article, I’m not getting fired for the pleasure of men!

#5. We encourage fantasies – Again ladies you scare the crap out of us! We don’t wanna say our fantasies because we are afraid your gonna think we are weird/disgusting. We really want to know your fantasies! Make a game out of it. You write yours down, we’ll write ours, then we will put them in a box and draw at random. If you 2 are both cool with it, go for it!

#6. We like it when you talk – We are totally cool with you saying something naughty into our ear, makes us feel all manly and stuff! Unless its something like “your pulling my hair” then just keep it to yourself.

#7. We need your honesty – Basically, men are dumb. We relate the lack of sex (or special attention) to something we aren’t doing right in bed. Not that we told you that you look kind of chubby today. So when you tell us you “have a headache” we think it’s because we are horrible lovers not that we are dumb. So tell us what the problem really is.

#8. We enjoy the dance – We may not seem like we like to earn your affection, but we do. It’s all about the chase! So make us work for it, but not too hard. There’s more, but again I’m not getting fired for you!

#9. We can explain pornography – Now don’t over react right away if you catch your man watching porn. Talking about what he likes about it and what you don’t could help solve the problem before you going running to a therapist.

#10. We always need it, But not for the reason you think – Sex is like McDonald’s to a fat kid! It’s considered a celebration. Men want women to be more “Carpe Diem” about sex. It shouldn’t be on the bottom of the “Important” totem pole.

**Again, I summed up what both Brendan Tapley says in the article. If you wish to read the entire article click on the link below**

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/10-things-men-wish-women-knew-about-sex-1888266/