 For those people who have been in long and loving relationships, you already know that the frequency of “nasty time” has declined a bit over the years. Unfortunately its inevitable that this is going to happen and most of the time it’s no ones fault (unless you’re Kristen Stewart….wow, first time I’ve been able to use that reference. Mostly because I don’t care. Ok, let’s move on.)We get locked up in routines and sometimes don’t realize that the little things we do may be why the sex life has suffered. After the jump you can find 3 common reasons why this happens and you probably never thought of them before!
#1.) Doing Chores Right Before You Go to Sleep. Some people like cleaning up and crossing stuff off their list, so they don’t have to worry about it in the morning. And that’s fine, but it tends to ruin the mood if it’s the very last thing you do before bed. If you HAVE to get something done, just try to give yourself a buffer of at least 10 to 15 minutes of downtime after you finish whatever it is that can’t wait.
#2.) Too Much Talking. Especially if it’s about something serious, like money. If you’re both busy and haven’t seen each other all day, it might seem like your ONLY chance to talk. But nothing kills the mood faster than bringing up something stressful.
#3.) Playing with Your Phone or Your iPad. It’s pretty hard to initiate anything when the other person’s checking Facebook or playing a game. So if you want more action, you SHOULD be concentrating on foreplay. Speaking of foreplay and technology, there are apps for that!
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